These are the things that I long to hear when I hit those moments of feeling so desperately alone. Those times when there is simply no one, no one to talk to about your day. NO one that can appreciate in the way you can your magical moments with your children…the small and meaningful strides […]
(Originally published March 30, 2013) The essence of Spring…rain, sun, earth…the rainbows and lovely small blossoms and new little shoots on trees. It has both this thrilling exciting energy that makes me want to start dancing and yet I have these moments that are filled with uncontrollable sobbing with hot tears streaming down my face. It’s […]
When your world is crumbling around as you go round and round the crazy roller coaster ride of divorce…join me once a month to discover the 9 things that you CAN count on during divorce. In not having any type of roadmap, we can become overwhelmed, exhausted, and depressed. We can allow ourselves to indulge […]
It is already 2014 on the other side of the world. So Happy New Year to all of you over there! Being that I am currently in Colorado, it is still several hours away. As many of us approach a New Year, it’s a wonderful time to reflect and also look forward. 2013 was a […]
There were several stellar examples of broken couples who were able to make it work for their children’s sake in my opinion. “It’s all about the kids,” they told me. It’s not easy, but we just put our differences aside and know that what we are doing in holding a structure together is ultimately the […]
Separation and divorce are considered to be one of life’s biggest challenges. The incredible stress placed on the body due to an over-active mind can be immense. We can be so caught up in the logistics of how to get it all done: legal, logistical, parenting, financial that by the time our head hits the […]
Sure, sure, sure it makes absolute sense that a recent study has correlated that women who are confident about their bodies are more likely to have happy, healthy relationships. That no brainer is tricky for the majority of us when we are exposed excessively to airbrushed pictures of the perfect women modeling lingerie that our […]
People always look at you after you have gone through a divorce, and they really want to know and see within you that you are, indeed, happy. My dad asks me all the time, “You’re happy, right?” Hell yeah I’m happy! Whew! Quite the journey, but happy, joyous, in love, empowered could all be words to describe how […]
It’s that time of year! We are really moving from Summer into full blown Fall. Yes even in California, we are quickly wrapping up our Indian Summer and feeling the crisper weather. The longer sleeves instead of shorter sleeves are being dawned. Light sweaters to cover up, etc. This year, I get an extra special […]
Welcome to your softening. I love learning about the effects of the astrological weather patterns. It always has so much that is playing on us. Sometimes I think I’m just stuck or in a funk and then I turn around and look up where the moon is, what is happening with the planets and then […]
